Violent Behavior

The last of the dojo kun seems to confuse many a new student: “To refrain from violent behavior”. After all, isn’t karate about kicking and punching and inflicting pain on an opponent? Sure, when you HAVE to defend yourself. Any true martial artist will tell you, however, that you want to do everything else in your power to avoid striking someone. It’s your last recourse. It’s the thing you only do when you have NO choice.

A black belt truly practices with the hope they never have to use their martial arts skills. There are few things we learn hoping not to have to use the skills. So, it’s a unique individual who hones their skills for years on end with that kind of mindset. Perhaps, that’s one of the things that sets martial artists a part from other types of people.

As I practice, focusing on my techniques and studying body dynamics I also work on being more aware of what’s going on around me and learning to identify routes of escape, should I need to use them. Trusting in the feeling in my gut telling me something isn’t right is invaluable.

As a black belt I’d find it inexcusable if I used brute force to defuse a situation without first trying to engage the other party, using strong verbal skills to subdue the person. There’s more than one way for a martial artist to take control. Think about that the next time tempers are exploding around you. Give yourself some distance to allow your words to control the situation.

Refrain from violent behavior. Unless you have no other choice.

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